Overcoming-Obsession-and-Dependence can make affection addiction relationships whole and satisfying.
Overcoming-Obsession-and-Dependence means addictive relationship recovery, not only first, but, long term.
Love addicts lack self-esteem, but you can build self-confidence with the following tools.
Overcoming-Obsession-and-Dependence starts now.
Lets start out by saying that recovering love addicts in addictive relationships have to work harder than most people to reclaim their self-esteem, and twice as hard to keep it.
It would be nice if once we felt good about ourselves we could maintain that feeling, but usually it doesn’t work out that way. Our love addiction is too strong.
Self-esteem can be elusive. One minute it’s there, and the next minute it seems to have vanished.
Lets also point out that while many of the following suggestions will help you build up your self-esteem by validating yourself, other recommendations will encourage you to utilize the validation of others to build up your self-esteem.
This may seem contradictory. Many people feel that we can love ourselves unconditionally from within and have no need for the love of others.
Overcoming-Obsession-and-Dependence also needs some outer validation.
We are only human, and no matter how strongly we believe in ourselves we need a little support.
What is important to remember, is that our own validation of ourselves, should come first, and it is more important than what others think of us.
In other words, you should build a strong foundation before you build a house.